Mr. and Mrs. Thomas (34 years)
Our First Date
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High school sweethearts, Carolyn and Joseph Thomas met at
church, where her dad was the pastor. These sweethearts did not
start off that way! In fact they really disliked each other. Their first date
happened as a favor to Joseph's best friend. Carolyn's cousin was going on a
date with Joseph's friend but she did not want to go without Carolyn. In order to make this date happen, Joseph's friend paid him $10 to take Carolyn to the movies. What started out as favor to a cousin and best friend
turned into a heartwarming love story! The two sealed the deal on June 9, 1979. Thirty-four
years later and they are still 'dating'! **The best $10 ever spent!!!!**
State/Country of Residence: * Oklahoma / USA
Ø What
qualities did you see in this person that made you want to marry her? Carolyn: He was tenderhearted and caring.
Joseph: I saw that
she would make a good mother.
Ø How
do you keep the romance going? What are some things that you enjoy doing as a
couple? Sometimes he writes love notes on my bathroom
mirror. I also tell him when he needs to
buy me flowers...and he does!
Ø What
is your favorite part of marriage? Laughing and talking
and also our friendship.
Ø What
is the most important aspect in a marriage to make it successful? Keep God first, know each other, and support each other
through all times.
Ø Life
often throws many curveballs, and those that make it through those tough times
stay together. How have you dealt with stressful times that arise? Keep an open mind and remember the wedding vows. We signed a contract but we made a vow to
God. Oh, and Joseph goes fishing. LOL!!
Ø Marriage
isn't always a cakewalk. What advice can you offer newly engaged couples when
disagreements occur? Fight about the issue at
hand. Don’t fight about the past, the
parents or the family.
Ø What
do you see as the strengths of your marriage? Faith,
friendship and love.
Ø Joseph,
what do you LOVE about Carolyn? Everything!!!
Ø Carolyn,
what do you LOVE about Joseph? I love his charisma.
Ø What
advice would you give newlyweds? Always be honest with
each other. Don’t see, hear, or believe
everything someone says about your spouse.
Marriage is a ministry; it’s about you meeting the needs of your spouse.
Ø What
song best describes your marriage?
Joseph: Never Would Have Made It Without You
Carolyn: Because You Love Me
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